Comments on: Parallels of the Carrie’s. http://carrielkoch.wordpress.com/2008/06/06/parallels-of-the-carries/ wondering in real time Wed, 04 Nov 2009 05:22:14 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Kristi http://carrielkoch.wordpress.com/2008/06/06/parallels-of-the-carries/#comment-290 Kristi Sat, 07 Jun 2008 19:33:31 +0000 http://carrielkoch.wordpress.com/?p=168#comment-290 I think you are doing what's right. Something is pulling you two together and I do believe he has grown up quite a bit since you two broke up and I think that is key to why you two are getting along so much better. As for my advice as opposed to what your friends there think -- they see you more, but maybe you don't express so much in person as we do through email, text, and phone since we both have been there, done that same sort of thing with the bad men in our life and that one guy we keep going back to and that's something we share in common and for so many others find hard to understand. I'm glad you are happy with TM and I look forward to hearing more where this goes. I believe he is happy too which makes everything good for the both of you. I think you are doing what’s right. Something is pulling you two together and I do believe he has grown up quite a bit since you two broke up and I think that is key to why you two are getting along so much better.

As for my advice as opposed to what your friends there think — they see you more, but maybe you don’t express so much in person as we do through email, text, and phone since we both have been there, done that same sort of thing with the bad men in our life and that one guy we keep going back to and that’s something we share in common and for so many others find hard to understand.

I’m glad you are happy with TM and I look forward to hearing more where this goes. I believe he is happy too which makes everything good for the both of you.

]]> By: lwayswright http://carrielkoch.wordpress.com/2008/06/06/parallels-of-the-carries/#comment-289 lwayswright Sat, 07 Jun 2008 01:26:42 +0000 http://carrielkoch.wordpress.com/?p=168#comment-289 I wish you the best in your relationship. I have those same things that go on in my heart, but it is toward my husband..let me explain. Our relationship before we married was a bit bumpy. He wasn't sure about getting married "again" and I was afraid of giving my heart to anyone. So we both pulled away, then pulled together. It was like a dance that the two of us danced out on a daily basis. Finally we took the plunge and got married. And, he is my best friend, my lover, my rock, but we still do that same dance at times. There are those moments when i am unsure, we are both insecure or he is strong and I am weak. There are moments when our passion is palpable to anyone in the room and days when we are more like roomates. The beauty of all of it is that we are together, come what may, and for good. We have learned that, like Big and Carrie, that dance is just us. It is who we are and we have gotten to a point where we understand it. I think that is how it is with your guy too! Only the two of you understand it and that's how it will always be. Other's will always question the reasoning behind your relationship and what it is that pulls you together. But if you are like my husband and I there isn't anything that can truly pull us apart. We are fused together. It's an uncommon but magical love. Good luck to you. I wish you the best in your relationship. I have those same things that go on in my heart, but it is toward my husband..let me explain. Our relationship before we married was a bit bumpy. He wasn’t sure about getting married “again” and I was afraid of giving my heart to anyone. So we both pulled away, then pulled together. It was like a dance that the two of us danced out on a daily basis. Finally we took the plunge and got married. And, he is my best friend, my lover, my rock, but we still do that same dance at times. There are those moments when i am unsure, we are both insecure or he is strong and I am weak. There are moments when our passion is palpable to anyone in the room and days when we are more like roomates. The beauty of all of it is that we are together, come what may, and for good. We have learned that, like Big and Carrie, that dance is just us. It is who we are and we have gotten to a point where we understand it. I think that is how it is with your guy too! Only the two of you understand it and that’s how it will always be. Other’s will always question the reasoning behind your relationship and what it is that pulls you together. But if you are like my husband and I there isn’t anything that can truly pull us apart. We are fused together. It’s an uncommon but magical love. Good luck to you.

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