I hate it when I am lying in bed in the dark staring at the ceiling, and my mind just keeps running. Late at night is usually when I seem to make the bigger decisions in my life. I have the peace and quiet to actually absorb everything, instead of hearing the constant chaos that is my life.
I realized that lately everything has been so stressful and hectic that I am wearing myself down. The last few days haven’t been too bad because I forced myself to take a break (literally, I did no homework for 3 days straight!) to breathe. Before that though, I thought I might completely shut down or die of exhuastion, not exactly a good feeling.
But tonight, I just told myself that no matter what, I am slowing down. Life is too short to worry about small things. I can handle a little stress, but overloads aren’t good. Prioritizing things differently might help. School is always number 1, but Betheny is right. It’s not everything, and I don’t have to have a perfect GPA (although I wouldn’t mind a perfect GPA if it wasn’t so hard). I cannot believe there are only 4 weeks left in this semester. Only 2 more semesters to go!!!!!
Also, along the lines of “life is too short” again, I feel like I should go for everything I want. Without holding back. I don’t want to go through the next 10 years afraid of being hurt and avoiding showing someone (yes, that someone) my real feelings. He already knows, he’s always known. But I told him a long time ago when maybe it wasn’t the right time. Now is the right time. I would definitely regret it if I don’t make sure he still knows, and I don’t want to look back and wish I had. Everytime I’m around him I can be myself and say anything and be happy or sad or unsure or crazy. He takes all of me, good and bad. I told myself that I was past the desire to have anything other than a friendship with him, but now I am realizing that I’m probably not. It’s the way he looks at me. And the way he watches when other guys are around me. Maybe it’s just me, hoping. Maybe he doesn’t feel the same as he did when he said he loved me, but then again, maybe he does. I think so, but I am going to find out because I need to. When I look ahead, I could see myself with him. But if not, I know, and he knows, that we’ll always be good friends. I can’t imagine life without him, no matter what relationship we have. And believe me, there are very few people that I can say that about.
I know now, too, that maybe the relationship with Nick an unconscious attempt on my part at distracting myself from wanting the other one. That is so shallow of me, but looking back, did I really think Nick and I would have worked out? No. I don’t know why it lasted as long as it did. We were completely different, and even though I did care about him, it wasn’t like I should have. I think I held back with him more than I would have had things been right. And if you read this, I’m sorry, Nick.
So besides a confusing love life (or halfway-existant love life, I guess) I’m just ready to start new with lots of things. I am excited about my weight lifting class, which is going to force me to keep the motivation up, and my Colorado trip this summer. I miss the mountains. I plan on going skydiving sometime in August (hopefully for my birthday) and spending lots of time at the lake.
I have a feeling that this summer is going to be a good one.